Setting Realistic Goals

Setting Realistic Goals

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This week, I got to facilitate the Society members setting realistic goals for the next month.

It’s nice to be able to sit and listen to what others are dreaming about so I can guide them closer to what they want to achieve.
Many times, I hear, “Sometimes I think, ‘How does Jessie do it all?'” The short answer is I just do—usually with a smile on my face.
A more general answer is obviously I don’t do it alone.

After a little thought and consideration of how I:

• run a membership (with quarterly reflections, monthly goal setting and assessing, pop-up trainings, and more)
• offer a mentorship program
• provide quarterly masterclasses
• do a monthly shootin’ the shit
• send many emails
• complete client work
• homeschool 3 kiddos
• act as the primary caregiver for the kids and pets
• coordinate play dates/sleepovers
• shuffle everyone to activities and appointments
As we know, the list likely goes on… all while still taking time off on weekends, vacations, or time away.
I am able to do all those things by learning how to shift my expectations, regulate myself better, place and hold boundaries, and learn when to let go.
My two planners, programs, and Google Calendar certainly make my life a little easier to juggle, too.
That all seems pretty simple, right? Simple, but not always easy.
Having done it for a decade means I’ve honed those skills (and continue to work on them)… and I get to share them with you when you’re in one of my containers.
Do you need some support in “doing it all?”

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Being Accessible

Being Accessible

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A recent conversation led to the point of being accessible.

I enjoy being around my kiddos… most of the time. 😆🙃
One of the reasons I enjoy doing what I do is because of my ability to be accessible to my friends, my family, my clients…

While I was writing promos the other day, I was able to:

  • soak up the sound of my son giggling (not always common these days) in the bathroom about his water pik as he cleaned his braces
  • watch my youngest practice her make-up skills and decide what she likes (AND OMG be assaulted by her figuring out WHY I say a little bit goes a long way when she decided no less than a million sprays of perfume was needed in her room the other night)
  • witness my middle figure out her style as she tried clothing combinations and talks through her thought process on why it definitely looks good
While it may seem insignificant, they don’t have to be “with” me to know I’m here should they need anything and they have the freedom to become who they want to become with the support they may need along the way.
Every time I have ever considered returning to a traditional position, a moment in time happens where my accessibility to witness and participate in my childrens’ lives quickly puts that consideration to rest.
Have you wondered how to continue growing your business while maintaining your accessibility?

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“Balance”

“Balance”

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“Balance” means a condition in which different elements are equal or in the correct proportions.

The problem is “correct proportions” is such a relative term. Equal is also something I have an issue with because when we’re trying daily to find “balance” between work and life, there’s no way it’ll ever be exactly equal.
Yes, you can feel good about where you’re at and you can even enjoy both. However, the minute something comes up to disrupt that, you’re left reeling, feeling guilty, or being so hard on yourself.
I want to challenge the term balance and shift that into the idea of a center (of balance if you still need that to be part of the phrasing… but really like a center of gravity).

A center can move and shift.

So, you may be in balance, but you may be heavier in work one day and heavier in family matters another day.
That imbalance to create “balance” needs to be more accepted and viewed as okay. It’s rarely, if ever, going to be 50-50.
A key component is making sure you’re fulfilled in how the imbalance is and that it works for you. Otherwise, that’s when the imbalance starts to become less tolerable or “worth it” so-to-speak.
It’s all about creating harmony at the end of the day.
How do you feel about your center?

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Messy and Beautiful

Messy and Beautiful

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Mompreneur life can be BOTH messy AND beautiful. Do you agree?

I talk about how you need to embrace your imperfections all the time and that it’s PROGRESS not perfection as the goal.

That speaks honestly to how we do everything as mompreneurs – messy, ups and downs, and completely imperfect… and there’s a beauty and cadence you can find in all of that.
If it’s too hard for you to see, that’s what I’m here for. To guide you through sorting that out and finding the rhythm that works well for you… and learning to change the flow as needed so you don’t skip a beat.
Whether you need a little or a lotta support, I’m here… the Mom Elevated Society or Mentorship are great solutions.
Let me know where you’re at in your business and what you need in this season.
**Thanks to Holly Crawshaw for the inspiration to create a post.**

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“Unpopular Opinion” or “Unique Perspective”??

“Unpopular Opinion” or “Unique Perspective”??

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“Unpopular Opinion” or “Unique Perspective”??

When you share your “Unpopular Opinion,” you are essentially helping others be open to receiving information that differs from theirs.
So many areas of life have shades and hues rather than being black or white, cut or dry.
There are varying degrees.
You can certainly “agree to disagree” but also just be willing to follow a path to a new, unique perspective you hadn’t thought of before.
Our experiences often lead us to our beliefs, our values, our… everything.
Allow someone else’s experiences to be heard and recognize there is truth to that as well (as right or wrong as it may be to you 😏 😉 ).
Challenging your opinions can be just that, a challenge… but it often guides you to a path of growth that I’ve found only grows and grows and grows…
What is something you recently learned that made you stop and go, “hmmm?”
**Thanks to Holly Crawshaw for the inspiration to create a post.**

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Trends Don’t Make You Bank

Trends Don’t Make You Bank

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“Follow the trends.”
“This is trending right now.”
“Have you seen the new trend?”

If I had a nickel for every time I’ve seen or heard this phrase in my feed…

Trends can be helpful for engagement, sure. Of course. There’s a reason it’s a trend in the first place. 

However, trends don’t make you bank. Here’s what does…

You need to focus on yourself, your business, and your message first and foremost.

If the trend fits, then by alllllll means, try it on for size.

But if you’re just participating to participate and say you hopped on that train, then it may not be worth it.

You want to draw in your ideal clients, and not every trend will align with that picture. That’s okay. 

Don’t worry. I assure you that another trend will come along, and perhaps the new one will be right up your ideal client’s alley.

  • If it fits your values, your business, and what you already share, then go for it.
  • If you want to try it out, I’m not here to stop you.
  • If it seems like fun, sure, infuse a little of that in there!

What I am saying is that you shouldn’t just do it because everyone else is doing it. Then, that would simply be a distraction – and, whew, do we have enough of that going on in this digital landscape.

What you DO want to do is make your own WAVE…

  • Share your WEALTH of knowledge.
  • Remain AUTHENTIC for your audience.
  • Layout your VALUES so you can stick to them.
  • Find what you ENJOY and keep doing that.

If you want another person to bounce ideas off of, let me know! I’d love to help wrangle the mental ping pong in the Mom Elevated Society.

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